I’ve always found it annoying when people say a suicide attempt is
"a cry for help." And the best one — "She’s just looking for
attention." I ran into that quite a bit in high school.
While a suicidal person may not realize it (I certainly didn’t), a suicide attempt is a cry for help. It’s an action that says "I’ve come to my breaking point. I’ve run out of options
and I don’t know what else to do. My problems are too much for me to
handle and the only way out of them is to die." Suicide is the action
which stem from thoughts that likely were never verbalized.
The majority of people who commit or attempt suicide aren’t just
seeking to die "just because."
…[T]wo doctors who are among the most often-cited experts on suicide…readily acknowledged the high degree of impulsivity associated with [jumping], but also considered that impulsivity as simply another symptom of mental illness. “Of all the hundreds of jumping suicides I’ve looked at,” one told me, “I’ve yet to come across a case where a mentally healthy person was walking across a bridge one day and just went over the side. It just doesn’t happen. There’s almost always the presence of mental illness somewhere.”
They feel as though they truly have "run
out of options" and ending their life is the least favorite backup
plan. The common thread that runs through all suicides is hopelessness.
So to wrap this series up, is it possible to prevent someone from committing or attempting suicide?
Continue reading “The Act and Follow-through of Suicide: Wrap-Up”
Compilation of Statistics Regarding Suicide
Scott Anderson in his NYT article weaves the grim statistics of suicide in and out of his story. Here’s the morbid list:
- The nation’s suicide rate (11 victims per 100,000 inhabitants) is almost precisely what it was in 1965.
- In 2005, approximately 32,000 Americans committed suicide, or nearly twice the number of those killed by homicide.
- The National Institute of Mental Health says that 90 percent of all suicide “completers” display some form of diagnosable mental disorder.
- Both elderly men living in Western states and white male adolescents from divorced families are at elevated risk.
Premeditation vs. Passion
- [T]he person who best fits the classic definition of “being suicidal” might actually be safer than one acting in the heat of the moment — at least 40 times safer in the case of someone opting for an overdose of pills over shooting himself.
- In a 2001 University of Houston study of 153 survivors of nearly lethal attempts between the ages of 13 and 34, only 13 percent reported having contemplated their act for eight hours or longer. To the contrary, 70 percent set the interval between deciding to kill themselves and acting at less than an hour, including an astonishing 24 percent who pegged the interval at less than five minutes.
- “Sticking one’s head in the oven” became so common in Britain that by the late 1950s it accounted for some 2,500 suicides a year, almost half the nation’s total. By the early 1970s, the amount of carbon monoxide
running through domestic gas lines had been reduced to nearly zero. During those same years, Britain’s national suicide rate dropped by nearly a third, and it has remained close to that reduced level ever since.
Continue reading “The Act and Follow-through of Suicide: Part IV”
Premeditation vs. Passion
Author Scott Anderson in his NYT magazine article, "The Urge to End It All," notes:
Just as with homicide, researchers have long recognized a premeditation-versus-passion dichotomy in suicide.
Continue reading “The Act and Follow-through of Suicide: Part III”